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Success For Life
As we begin the new year let’s make it a time where we finally decide to ignore all the “should’s” in our lives.
Let’s choose to let go of resolutions and develop resolve instead.
A fortitude to forgive ourselves for all our self-criticisms. A determination to develop a deeper wellspring of joy and happiness. And a courage to boldly bring into existence the dreams that silently sleep within our hearts.
7 Wishes For The New Year
- May we have the courage to accept and be at peace with what is.
- May we find the joy in imagining what “could” be.
- May we take a moment to reflect on the year past.
- May we have the knowledge to give thanks for everything that we’ve experienced.
- May we see the perfection in every outcome.
- May we be motivated to change because we want to not because we feel guilted to.
- And may we realize that as we grow we show others the greatness that’s within them as well.
So as this new year begins find a moment to be with yourself. Take stock of where you’ve been, where you are and where you want to be. Realize that your power lies in the present moment. So strive to become present to the presence of the mystery hidden in the here and now.
Three Reasons Why New Years Resolutions Don’t Work
- They’re conceived around what we “should” be doing. So they are always born from a place of guilt.
- They’re implemented at the wrong time of year. We’re too tired at the start of the year to give them a real go.
- They’re never built around a plan of action. We stumble or way through them without having created a course of action to make them really work.
When we look at the root meaning of the word resolution a different picture emerges than the one we have conditioned ourselves to.
The root meaning of Resolution bring forth the concepts of, “A breaking into parts.” a “process of reducing things into simpler forms.” or to “loosen.”
So if you feel compelled to draft up a series of new years resolutions that you’re determined to put in place as the clock strikes twelve then please take your inspiration from the root meaning of the word resolution and try these three tips that will help you succeed:
Three Tips To Help You If You Really Want Make New Years Resolution
- Break your plans into smaller parts. Tackle them one at a time.
- Simplify the process. A leads to B leads to C. (Or maybe even choose goals that simplify your life.)
- Try to develop resolutions that loosen the burdens in your life, not add to them.
May the coming year bring you amazing adventures and great success.
Be inspirational!
Ian
Inspiring You To Greatness
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5 Comments for Screw Resolutions
ianpaulmarshall
Thanks Tara for the great reply! Amazing idea.
One word. Nice and simple. Could be a good exercise to meditate on this and see what bubbles to the surface for the new year.
Maybe even set the intention with something like, “In this moment I know that I am nurtured within the immensity of existence. I take this time now to connect with myself and all of life. Infinite wisdom pours through me and I open myself up to be inspired by source energy. I trust that I will be blessed now with the perfect word that will guide me to reveal ever greater aspects of myself for the coming new year.”
Thanks for the inspiration Tara!
Tara Strauss
I appriciate your suggestions, wise and insightful. I came upon a blog last year that suggested, instead of picking a 'New Years Resolution', pick a word. An inspirational word, that you can refer to throughout your year. Last year i choose courage. So whenever I was in a position to make a decision i reflected on the word 'courage' and was able to make the right choice. I left my job and started a home business! I haven't decided what word I will choose this year, maybe 'humour', or 'determination'. Whatever i decide on, I have found that the power of this one word is incredible. It is a simple reminder for you to look to throughout the year.
ianpaulmarshall
Thanks Tara for the great reply! Amazing idea.
One word. Nice and simple. Could be a good exercise to meditate on this and see what bubbles to the surface for the new year.
Maybe even set the intention with something like, “In this moment I know that I am nurtured within the immensity of existence. I take this time now to connect with myself and all of life. Infinite wisdom pours through me and I open myself up to be inspired by source energy. I trust that I will be blessed now with the perfect word that will guide me to reveal ever greater aspects of myself for the coming new year.”
Thanks for the inspiration Tara!
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I appriciate your suggestions, wise and insightful. I came upon a blog last year that suggested, instead of picking a 'New Years Resolution', pick a word. An inspirational word, that you can refer to throughout your year. Last year i choose courage. So whenever I was in a position to make a decision i reflected on the word 'courage' and was able to make the right choice. I left my job and started a home business! I haven't decided what word I will choose this year, maybe 'humour', or 'determination'. Whatever i decide on, I have found that the power of this one word is incredible. It is a simple reminder for you to look to throughout the year.